You are my next sermon illustration

You ever get the feeling your preacher is just talking to you because he wants to make an example of you?


In seminary you learn a bunch of ways to share the word of God (specifically: preach). There are places you start and ways to read Scripture. Canned illustrations are of the devil (or so my preaching class taught me). This is ironic, as a good number of pastors today use material someone else came up with. (btw, this post is about the ethics of "lifting" someone else's material for the promotion of the Kingdom of God - but its about something worse than copyright laws)

And lets face it, those pastors probably have better sermons because of it. But for those of us who try to honestly ply our trade with as little "help" as possible, we can quickly run out of material. C'mon. How many Frank Craddock's or Max Lucado's can be out there? There is a reason every preacher knows how to type and pay homage to "Brett Blair and staff".

One rule that stuck out is that a preacher never wants to become the focus of his/her own sermon. We can be oblivious to this fact sometimes. For example, some ministers have a tendency to always be the good guy in their stories. Other pastors always tell stories where they are the victim. Some ministers endlessly tell stories about their kids or their spouse, or what they were thinking when they were waiting in line at the Post Office. You get the idea right?

You, my friend, are my next sermon illustration. I often have to catch myself (this is a blog, not a sermon, I can talk about myself all I want) talking about my home town and my friends and the things that I enjoy in life.

And why wouldn't I? They are the people, places, and experiences that made me, me. Specifically, they often were the very vessels for the love of God in my life. And in a sermon, the best way for me to tell/show you about Jesus is to tell/show you who he has made me.

And sure, everyone has their tendencies, but that doesn't make them right.

I've been wrestling a bit lately with simply turning people into sermon illustrations. You are not just an example to be used to help someone else out. You have worth, in, and of, yourself.

Preachers should be mindful of and ask permission whenever using someone else's story to make a point. If any pastor shares an illustration that belittles someone (ANYONE), we are at fault! Consider it a rule of compassion. Do you think Jesus went around telling stories about children ALL THE TIME that simply made fun of how simple-minded children could be? Or talked about Susan Boyle as if she was ugly as sin?

No. Whenever Jesus tells stories, the people involved are either 1.) lifted up and encouraged or 2.) convicted and brought low.

And frankly, you aren't convicting anyone talking about that kid with downs - you are just pulling on heart strings. Its one thing to talk about how someone overcame adversity and witnessed to the power of the Holy Spirit. Its a completely other thing to give a backhanded compliment to someone who can't defend themselves. We draw a thin line sometimes between dehumanizing someone to make a point and "hey, their expense is someone else's gain".

In some greater, broader, and definitely general sense, all Christians can deny a person their own existence. How - you ask? Its easy. Think quick on your feet:

Why were you saved in Christ?


So others may be saved....right? Sure. Of course that is correct.

But what if you were saved simply because you are worth a lot to God. YES, for crying out loud, we are blessed to be a blessing. But the rub for me is that somewhere we miss the assurance, contentment, and love of Christ for ourselves. I think some Christians skip that whole "God loves me" part and skip straight to the "I'm only a vessel to help you" - and without the assurance of Jesus' grace in our lives, we cannot have the proper motive to witness to others. No wonder my faith is so shallow. No one ever taught me how to grow my OWN faith.

You are not God's sermon illustration. Your existence is not predicated on someone else's faith/salvation. I hope and pray that your story can and will lift others up, or convict and bring low.

But please remember, your worth is not found in anyone other than Jesus Christ and the God he knows.

Tell stories. Talk to your pastor (if you dare). But remember, I am going to try hard to not steal your story. I'm going to try hard to not steal your humanity. Its yours! If you'll let me, maybe I'll share it. But I won't take it from you.


  1. thank you! I needed to hear some of that.

    You can totally tell my stories. Just use my code name. I was always CoCo and my SIL, Giselle. Yes, we had fake names we used when we would go out just the two of us. :)

  2. Thoughtful comments. I went to a series of lectures on Young Voices in Homiletics last year, where one of the speakers said that if your illustration (of yourself or anyone else) doesn't point the listener to God, you shouldn't use it. If it's used to lift you up, or to put someone else down, and not used to point the listener to God, or to lift up God's work in the world, then it is just a story about you and your friends.
    I try to be careful about asking people (ESPECIALLY family) before using something they've done or said in a sermon. Some people will say no, and that's okay, but i often find that when I ask, and let them know what i'm doing, that they are often surprised by how I'm using it, and love to feel included.

    On another note, i have a friend who went to a church and heard her sermon being preached by another person with no credit given to her. (he'd taken it off her website.) such a shame that so many would rather steal material, then be courageous enough to let God speak through them.....

  3. speaking of sermons, jack, how does one get a hold of you giving them? by the way, does it change the situation if someone gives you their story to share? you can use whatever God used between us, friend, in whatever sermon, whenever you give it... :) ....just in case you need some stories. Peace friend. Dan

  4. Inclusion or Exclusion!

    Some people have an Idea that God is inclusive for mans eternal destiny, that all religions and all people will be saved. That God will allow all of mankind to enter into heaven because everybody is good so God must be fair and include everyone! It is true God does love the whole world but God is exclusive about mans eternal destiny without the Savior. To keep this simple man has a problem called sin in which man refuses to believe that there are eternal consequences for having sin, which is a one way ticket to hell. God is holy and he will not allow anyone with sin to enter into heaven. God is hurt and angry about our sin, we have broken his laws. But God is just and good and he knows our need so he provided a solution to our problem. His solution to our problem is to have our sins removed by having our sins placed on someone else, a sacrifice for us; paying for the penalty of the sin we have in our lives. So that someone else would get the penalty of Gods wrath and separation on him that was meant for us. So God sent his son Jesus on a mission from heaven to earth as our sacrifice to die on the cross on our behalf after this happened three days later Jesus came back from the dead, alive. But that’s not all remember I wrote that God is exclusive about mans eternal destiny without the Savior? The only way that Gods promise can be applied to your life is for you to turn from your way of thinking and know that your sin offends and hurts God and call on the Lord Jesus who’s alive to save you. Your sins are then transferred to Jesus for what he did at the cross, dying and being abandon by God because of your sins, for you and because Jesus arose from the dead he is alive you can now enter into a relationship with God. Will you call out to Jesus to save you? It’s your choice to enter in exclusively with God’s grace for you. Where will you want to spend eternity after hearing Gods promise for you?
    If the answer was yes that you do want Jesus as your sin bearer, Savior, and you do believe God raised Jesus from the dead you can pray with your voice.

    “Dear Lord Jesus save me.”

    Acts 20:21 Testifying both to the Jews, and also to the Greeks, repentance towards God, and faith toward our Lord Jesus Christ.


  5. I'm sorry, Mario, could you explain please how you comment has anything to with the blog post you attached it to? I mean, I can see it having something to do with open-mindedness or my "Who will be saved" post, but it almost seems like you are just advertising your blog.

    Which is fine, but I look forward to hearing how the inclusivity/exclusivity of Christ deals with sermon illustrations or the how the atonement of Christ changes our perceptions of WHY I'm saved.

    Fire away, I'd love your insights.

  6. Dear United Method,
    In the opening sentence of this blog we are told about "preaching, sharing, the word of God". A lot of people when they are reading a blog they pick and choose what is good for the mind but not the heart. Another words they want what they want when they want it and how they want it. If they are offended in their thoughts they attack the post or the commenter without, sticking to the integrity of this blog, going first to God for direction and wisdom on how to address anything that may offend you. As for the advertisement if you are lost you can know the Lord Jesus in a relational way by being born again. The preaching of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing. Take care my friend and may the Lord richly bless your endeavor to find HIS truth.


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